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Title: Emotional support and help with dealing


MindOfAKiller - November 1, 2008 04:37 AM (GMT)
Alright, I thought this might be a good idea because everybody needs emotional support and help with dealing. So I thought that you can write down the thing you need help with or if you just need to vent a little. ;)

Ok, I´ve got a question. From when I was like 12 I have always wantd to run away, needed to live alone and free. How do you fend of the need to runaway? I´m 16 now and I have a great life(kinda) and great friends and I go to a great school with subjects that I have choosen myself. Why do I still have the urge to just go away? Some of you might have had the same trouble or has it now, do you have any good ideas how to deal?


CharmingAngel - December 24, 2008 09:22 PM (GMT)
I know the feeling of wanting to run away or even turn invisible, what I always did was making sure I had a place I could go to when I just wanted to be alone. (My room and the mall.) Nowadays I txt or call my boyfriend when I have these urges nd usually it's because of my parents that I get these urges.

I'm a firm believer of whatever you may deal with, running away or worse is not the answer, because even if you feel like u can't talk to someone... there really is always someone... it may take some time to find out, but there is... and let me make myself a candidate... I'm a good ''reader'' (listener ;)).

Do you have these urges for a reason or? And you know what, don't feel bad of having these urges, everybody has them once in a while, it all comes down to how you act on it, but if you really feel unhappy... I would like to know more.


CriminalMind - December 26, 2008 08:11 PM (GMT)
I'm 17 and get these urges all the time. Funny thing is, now I'm getting to the point where I have the chance to go off and live on my own, I'm terrified!

I agree with what CharmingAngel said. Find somewhere where you can go and just be alone, whether it's your room, the mall, the library, the garden whatever. That way at least you get a reprive from being around people. I tend to lock myself in the bathroom and run some water or something (usually to have a good cry), or take a book and sit in our aviary 'porch' part for a bit. As long as you can get away somewhere, because otherwise you go mad. It's normal, it really is. SOmetimes life is just stressful and you need to get away. Don't forget, you can always talk to us, we don't judge, and we're decent peoples (well, we try, bless us! :D)




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