I've been on a diet since May 7th, and at first, I was doing a great job. I started a journal to record progress, and I exercised and ate only good stuff, and a smaller amount of it. Why was I doing it all?

So I could make a sign to take to a Clay concert that said 'I lost ___pounds to sing with Clay'. And at first, that really worked. But now I've lost alot of interest in Clay, because I'm obsessed with Anthony at the time.

I've lost all will to lose weight, and I'm eating alot more than I should be. I need help. Anyone have advice for me?

If you wanna see that journal, it's here: http://www.livejournal.com/users/operationSWC/

I think that by wanting to lose weight you have to change the way that you think. A diet isn't about eating good and exercising for a short period of time, losing weight, and then gaining it all back again when your off the diet. Your diet has to become part of your lifestyle. Eating healthy and exercising have to be something that you enjoy. Losing weight is all about attitude. Think positively about it, set simple reachable goals for yourself, and learn to love yourself no matter what the results. :grin: Don't sweat if you have too many fries or something one day. Love yourself for who you are and if you lose weight in the process that's great. It doesn't matter how much you weigh you're always gonna be a great person. :smile:

Thanks for the advice. I know it's gunna be part of my lifestyle, it's just really hard when you have no inspiration because you don't like your goal much anymore...lol

ur supposed to obsess with both :grin:

I know, but Clay's been out of the spotlight, and I really miss 'im. :tears: It's hard to obsess with someone who isn't around anymore. Earilar this year, I was CRAZY bout him, even though he was gone, but now... :sad: